Hah.. love and falling in love.. what's the difference? I got the difference from one of my friend's blog, and she got it from one of the lecture classes.. well at least someone's listening to lectures.. XD XD
so what's the difference? falling in love is the feeling. the feeling at one point of time
love on the other hand is a CHOICE.
to illustrate, let's take God as an example..
God LOVES us, He did not fell in love with us.. you see the difference? He choose to love us in spite of our lackings.. it's not He fell in love with us for that moment in time only.
So when u have feelings towards someone, ask yourself this question... do you fall in love with that person? or do you love that person?
of course, u need to at least have some feelings for that person before making a choice to love that person right? and for that, i do not disagree that we might need to fall in love first, but to sustain or to start a relationship, i think it is very important to ask ourselves whether we would make the choice to love that person, and not just falling for that person..
God Bless~
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