Moral dilemma

Today i was in computer lab sitting, spending my time reading Eyeshield 21 (it's an awesome manga XD) when i heard some people presenting..

sitting beside me, there was a group of students, presenting on parenting styles... it's hard to ignore them when they are presenting like that and when they presented, i actually wanted to comment on a few stuffs.

but i was struggling, thinking, rationalizing, should or should i not walk there and tell them what i think about their presentation? as a fellow psychology student, i should tell them where they can improve on their presentation... i mean, if i know that they are going to get bomb from the lecturer and the tutor because of their mistake, y shouldn't i tell them? knowing that they are going to get eaten by tiger and not saving them is not that good right??

but another part of me was thinking... if i walk there, and tell them, would i be a little too 'action'? people are practicing and without any asking of help, i just go there and tell them where they go wrong.. really not a very good idea.. and therefore, for half an hour till 40 minutes.. i thought of what i should do

on one hand, it really is bad for me not to tell them, but on the other hand, me telling them might make them feel offended. so how???

so what did i do?

i went up to the group, introduced myself to the most good looking girl and said that i overheard them practicing.. i asked them whether they would mind me giving them a few comments... they didn't mind.. yay.. so i gave them my comments and left.. :)

well actually that's not what happened la.. that hypothetical situation was the perfect scenario which was playing in my head for that 40 minutes.. of course.. this hypothetical situation remain hypothetical..

what i decided to do was this.. i wrote on a piece of paper all of my comments and i wanted to give it to them.. but just when i stood up, they also stood up =.=!! make me gan cheong only.. then i wavered.. should i or should i not pass them the paper..

i waited for a moment to see what their next step is.. they left the lab, 4 of them.. leaving 1 last guy behind.. so i approached the guy and told him that i overheard them practicing.. and i asked whether their presentation is now.. he answered me yes.. and asked me y.. i said i got some comments but since their presenting now, my comments would not be of any use anymore..

he told me.. "owh it's ok la.. i will incorporate it into the presentation".. so i gave him the piece of paper.. he opened it up.. and his reaction was 'whoah'... cause i did wrote quite a little..

and then i wished him good luck and went for my class..

anyone got better idea or suggestion what i should do next time in such situation?

God Bless~

First encounters

Since coming to college, i start to remember better my first encounter with people.. or rather my first conversation with them.. below are a few people whom i have chosen to talk on.. for those who are not below, don't feel too bad cause i have my reasons and i simply can't blog forever right? hahaha.. :p

Mr. Lam - how can i not put u here right? today in class i asked him whether he remembered our first conversation or how we met. He said "yeah i remembered. we met at the water filter" and that answer is so TOTALLY WRONG. =.=!!

we met during calculus class.. or rather not-supposed-to-be calculus class. Calculus class was canceled that day and me, him and tawfik didn't knew that.. so only 3 of us appear for class and that's how we met. he have this macho-cum-cool-cum-distant-i-don't-1-to-know-u that kind of face.. XD something like this la..

Sufan - hahaha.. i don't think many people will who he is.. he's an ex HELP student who plays volleyball.. the first day i joined the volleyball club, i don't know anyone.. but since they were digging the ball, i just joined in the circle and from that moment on, i knew he was a good, ok.. maybe great volleyball player.. all others are noob and pale in comparison to him.. XD XD among the locals at least and i am sure the next person i am going to talk about is going to agree with me fully... hahahaha

He's on the left side.. no 4.

Ying Zhou - we started talking in MC100 class.. i can remember because we went around telling other people what we like and we shook hands.. then he said he likes volleyball... i was like.. "really???" XD.. then i started to tell him about the volleyball club and since then we will go to bangsar together, rain or shine... like volleyball freaks like that..

He's in the middle, the yellow shirt

There are many other people whom i remembered our first encounter or conversation. Me not putting here does not mean i don't heart (i don't know whether this is valid grammar, but who cares) u people :)

God Bless~

Life's Good

22 March 09

I shall start with this morning. This morning i dreamt of something weird. Hahaha.. Dreamt of Loo Loo actually.. I was eating with people (can't really remember who but people with close relationship i guess.. family?) and then when we finished eating, Loo Loo came into the picture..

She said that she had argument with someone and she poured out her stuffs to me la.. So in the dream, i felt that i was eating in Sungai Wang, and after she told me her stuffs, she disappeared for a moment and when she came back, i asked her to go walk walk with me la.. to level 6.

so we went to a lift and then there's a man inside the lift.. and we went in...

strange enough, the lift got lots of buttons, because got lots of levels.. and money river don't have that many levels.. and the lift is not going where we are wanting to go. it travels here and there and finally when the lift door opened, we were at... Puchong? hahahaha.. seriously absurd..

then climbed up the stairs and i almost tripped, and then i woke up... cause my alarm woke me up.

21 March 09

So moving backwards to yesterday.... i woke up early to go to church for some things.. and well it ended quite fun la.. although i have to dig some money out of my pocket, but i guess that's what a leader have to do la.. hahaha..

then in the afternoon, after lunch i went to Oriental Crystal Hotel to attend the Selangor Volleyball Association's (SVA) AGM. Heard that YAB Selangor's MB will be there, and i was anticipating to see him in person, but he did not attend. hahaha.. nevermind that..

So the president of SVA LOVES to talk.. XD.. but then his talk is quite listenable la.. he always added in his life experience which added the persuasion value into it (vividness). He's old, but he has come to a stage where he have transcended life... from the way he speaks, it is as if what he wants is to give back to the society.. very good, lovely man indeed.

And i have some good news regarding the organizing of beach volleyball. Hopefully i can materialize this dream plan of mine :)

In conclusion.. life's good. I am finding satisfaction from what I am currently doing.. very blessed indeed.

God Bless~

Broken

Broken.. broken... broken... broken... broken...

we live in a really broken world where everyone will break one time or another. it's terrifying to see so many broken-ness in this world

shocked, terrified, pondering, wondering...

Broken.. broken... broken... broken... broken...
God Bless all those broken hearted people

Ramblings

I act as if i am joking, but i do mean what i say.....
it hurts to hear you tell me, but i do want to know....
i don't know how to be serious, afraid that our relationship would be jeapordized...
what have i learn in psychology? is there anything that i have learnt that can be applied to me?
it is both bitter and sweet....
i feel as if there is a void in my heart...
but i guess loving means that i have to let go and be happy for the other...

happy for a bird. dang cute. happy that she is happy. :D

on a totally suprising note, i saw ms. winnee here.. in penang.. she is staying in the same hotel as i am.. lol.. super suprised to bump into her here.. no.. not winnee cheong.. but winnee, foundation lecturer... wife of alex chin.. XD

at first when i saw her, i was thinking to myself 'how come look so much like winnee 1?' then comes mr. alex and jason.. then confirm her dy.. lol..

and when she is here.. how can jason not be here? JASON!!!! XD but then i didn't go play with him.. not good la... whole family there i go kacau.. lol

there are sooooo many cute girls at the wedding dinner la just now.. lol.. i mean cute LITTLE girls.. haha.. all dressed in white and super cute lo all of them.. even the little boys are cute.. :p
food was better tonight, atmosphere better also.. yum sing also got oomph... but void is still there

You by my side,

that's how i see us,

I close my eyes,

and i can see us

we're on our way to say i do

my secret dreams have all come true

I see the church

i see the people

your folks and mine,

happy and smiling

and i can hear sweet voices singing

ave Maria

all my love, my life,

this can really be

that someday you'll walk,

down the aisle with me

let it be, make it be,

that i am the one for u

I'll be yours, all yours,

Now and forever

God Bless~