Sunday, July 6, 2008

Abnormal Psych

These few days i have been reading quite a lot of abnormal psych.. due to exams mer... what to do.. ho ho.. After reading a whole lot, i came to realize something.. this realization might or might not be true.. it's just my opinion

Most, if not all, of so called 'abnormalities' or disorders are due to ENVIRONMENT. Let me elaborate a little bit y do i say so.. The life we are living now is very stressful if compared to older times.. these increase in stress is EXTREMELY important to trigger any genetic predisposition we have..

and because of this stressful environment, we strive for a better living, which more often than not, means looking for more money.. this leads to later marriages... i know this is a slippery slope argument, but looking at the age that people nowadays get married at and compare it to last time.. it's a BIG difference.. people last time, get married at about 20-ish.. nowadays, there are people who get married at what? 40? 60?

*side note* i don't know y some people like to marry so many wives and they have so many children like ... 18 children.. recent case of a guy who wants to marry a fouth wive, and the 3 other wives actually would pay for him.. don't they know how this would affect the children? lack of affection, siblings who are old enough to be their parents.. well.. maybe they really don't know..

if want to get married, marry early la.. marrying at a later age makes your child more vulnerable for abnormalities la.. like Down syndrome and others. i know... u might want to provide a better environment for your kids with a better financial stability, but what use is financial stability if your child is not healthy? but it's not the parent's fault.. it all goes back to the environment we live in.. without a good sum of money, it's kinda hard to raise kids.. so.. ENVIRONMENT again..

so what to do? seriously speaking? i also don't know.. i think what would be best is to live in moderation, which means need not so much money and don't marry too late.

God Bless~

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