Cupid

Yo people,




Today on 8tv, Cupid was aired for the first time and I guess this will be one good show where I can be educated about LOVE. hahaha.





So the story goes like this. There's this guy, who calls himself Cupid, and he was punished to Earth and he has to bring together 100 couples before he can get back to Olympus. His idea of love is more or less pretty 'old school'. And there is this doctor by the name of McCrae, who is a psychiatrist, who is an expert in love relationship.





So McCrae, being a psychiatrist, was assigned to take care of Cupid (cause people think he is coo-coo by calling himself Cupid) and their theory of love sort of collide with each other. I remember some of the words Cupid and McCrae said in the show just now.





Cupid: Love is about passion, heat, the intensity, sex.





McCrae: NO! Love is what's left after the passion, heat or the intensity.





So who's right? Watch the show :)

This is Mr. Cupid

I would like to end this post with one of his other quote:

"Why is it so hard for humans to fall in love?"

God Bless~

History

I don't know since when, but i am starting to miss history. No not the lesson, but my own past experience... as the old people always say 'the good oool days'

life last time was stress-less.. no no.. let me rephrase it.. it's less stress cause as Goh (2009) said, stress is always there, unless you are either dead, or you simply don't care. see.. i blog also need to talk bout Goh.. stress not?

i still remember how college life was so fun and less stressful. during foundation and 1st year, studies was owhkay and eventhough there were some stresses here and there, there is no major stress. as far as i could remember.

volleyball then was stressless. let me repeat this.. STRESSLESS. hahaha.. cause there is no competition, and also, i wasn't the person in charge. So i just go and play, rain or shine, little or many people. i still remember then the court was always filled with laughter. eventhough the turnout might be not encouraging, we still always manage to have fun. that's because we were just playing for fun, and not really training.

nowadays, things are more uptight, more things to achieve, more goals to be met, higher expectations. and ultimately more stress. Study wise, as well as the commitment of being who i am. but although there are more stress, there are also good things.

it's good that we can compete, a lot more than i can ever imagine 2 years back. before this, i could never imagine that i will be always looking out for tournaments to participate in. it's also good that the volleyballers are having quite a strong bond. ok not all of them, but some of them. this really made me glad.

to describe my transformation, i guess it's like a soldier in battlefield, or a young activist. we set out with a big dream, of having something great, of transforming and making things better. thinking of how we can change people's live for the better.

but when reality sets in, things are not as what they seem. soldiers who are suppose to protect civilians kills civilians instead. activist who fight for what he/she thinks is right is sometimes seen as wrongdoers. and in the process of trying to achieve their goal, they themselves have transformed into someone else.

have i changed? i think i have, but i won't put a value of whether it's good or bad. i guess it's just like what Lulu (a character in Final Fantasy 10) said

"If you want everything, you will end up with nothing"

But i really do want everything.. hahaha... well i guess such is life. there is no perfect solution to everything is there?

God Bless~

Responsibilities

It's been a while since i last blogged. There are many things that came to my mind, and sometimes i want to blog about it, but then again, i guessed it's not that significant, and therefore, i didn't blog about it.

Anyhow, today i am going to blog about RESPONSIBILITIES

I think of myself as quite responsible. Or at least that's what i PERCEIVE about myself. I may be lazy, but when it comes to the things that i am schematic about, i am pretty responsible. So what are the things that are schematic to me? I think currently, rank no. 1 on the list is the Volleyball Club. and so i shall rant about it. XD

It's really hard when you are in the position of a leader. Being a leader means that you will have to balance the needs of everyone including my own needs and it's really tough to balance these needs.

1) The need to win vs the need to train
When we send teams out for competition, definitely the goal is to win. Or at least strive to win, which means that the strongest players will be the main players. This will also mean that the reserve players will most likely sit on bench for the whole of competition. Being the leader, I would also want to reserves to have a chance to play, to compete in competition cause if not, then what's the purpose of coming for training week after week? How to balance? Almost impossible cause it will be forsaking a goal for another, unless of course the reserves player are awesomely good, but that's rarely the case.

Solution? - send out 2 teams. But still there are people whom dislike this, cause obviously the strongest team will be in one side (need to win), and everyone wants to play for the winning team (Goh, 2009). The people who are in the second team might feel that they are 'second class' being chucked aside.

Conclusion - Headache

2) The need for real training and the need for fun
Real training is tough, and not many people like it. Therefore there is a need to balance between being too tough in training and between having fun, which is of course difficult because is it's not tough enough, then it's not stimulating enough and nobody will improve. If it's too tough, then it will be demotivating. And stimulating for a person might mean too hard for another.

Solution - The only thing i can figure out right now is that training should follow the person's progression. Of course, it's easier said than done.

Conclusion - Headache

3) Need for inclusiveness vs my selfish needs
As a volleyball player myself, of course i would want each match to be as stimulating as possible, so that I can hone my skills as well as all others on the court. which in this case would mean that everyone on the court should be good players. It would be a good challenge. But at the same time, I cannot sideline other players, cause they should play with good players as well so that they can improve, but if less good players are in, then the match would be less fun (and yes, i know i am being very selfish with this statement). Also, it's extremely important (or at least i think so) to have the main team train together with other people so that they can have cohesiveness between members. Sadly, when the main team group together, normally the other team don't stand a change, and therefore, normally the strength of the 2 teams are seperated

Solution - this 1 is easier to be balanced. have some games which includes everyone, and other games which is like 'all-star' players. so no biggie. Can ask for friendly with other outsiders, so that the main team can train.

Conclusion - hard to balance and need a lot of planning and hard work to ask people to come play friendly with us.

Oh well.. that's not just all but i guess it's enough la. All in all it's headache, but i do love volleyball very much and that's that.

God Bless~